Kidan
Moderator
Earlier, I was in a PUG with about 3 other Guild members, and then filled out the rest with non-guildmates. For the prupose of this discussion, those guildies shall remain nameless. If I find any references to specific people I will delete those names. We're not here to point fingers and assign blame, this discussion is here to clarify a point of rule for in-game behavior.
As is the usual behavior of folks in the PUG, the non-guildmates began cursing. It was requested of them to not do so, and the non-guildies said "sorry an ok." Then a little while later in the mission, the non-guildie cursed again. At this point a guildmate began nagging the other player about his cursing. Which in turn made the non-guildies in the PUG very defensive and slightly naggy as well.
Now the question remains, who was in the wrong here?
For my point of view, the guildmate was the one misbehaving, as it does not show the love of Christ by nagging. We're not running the server, and there's no way we can actively control the other players.
So should we, as Christians, repeatedly demand non-Christians to not curse in PUGs, or should we respectively request just once for non-Christians to not curse in PUGs.
There are a whole host of reasons why either solution is ok, but the following are my reasons for my opinion:
1) We're not in charge. Its not our servers, and we cannot set the rules.
2) By becoming extermely reactive in this fashion, we run the risk of ArenaNet modifying their EULA to disallow active Christian references on their servers.
3) It does not show very much love. Remember, we are required to show love in everything we do, if we fail that, then what's the point of being here?
As is the usual behavior of folks in the PUG, the non-guildmates began cursing. It was requested of them to not do so, and the non-guildies said "sorry an ok." Then a little while later in the mission, the non-guildie cursed again. At this point a guildmate began nagging the other player about his cursing. Which in turn made the non-guildies in the PUG very defensive and slightly naggy as well.
Now the question remains, who was in the wrong here?
For my point of view, the guildmate was the one misbehaving, as it does not show the love of Christ by nagging. We're not running the server, and there's no way we can actively control the other players.
So should we, as Christians, repeatedly demand non-Christians to not curse in PUGs, or should we respectively request just once for non-Christians to not curse in PUGs.
There are a whole host of reasons why either solution is ok, but the following are my reasons for my opinion:
1) We're not in charge. Its not our servers, and we cannot set the rules.
2) By becoming extermely reactive in this fashion, we run the risk of ArenaNet modifying their EULA to disallow active Christian references on their servers.
3) It does not show very much love. Remember, we are required to show love in everything we do, if we fail that, then what's the point of being here?