Gods_Peon said:
Alot of people label themselves christian, which is most likely a mislabelling of themselves.
I suspect a great number of those are because they don't truly undersatnd what being a Christian means. Believing in the existance of God, or believing the possibility that there really was an "Adam and Eve," "Noah's Ark," or whatever other kids story... doesn't make you a Christian. That's a huge sticking point that I had to deal with a few years ago.
Stc95 said:
But how many people are actually Christians? How many people actually go to church every Sunday. Actually pray and have a relationship with God? How many actually read the Bible? Everyone in the world can say they are a Christian. Its just a label, being a Christian is different than having a relationship with Jesus. Which is being a true Christian.
Quoted for truth. Sitting in the garage doesn't make me a car. Sitting in church (and daydreaming, thinking about football, people-watching) doesn't make you a Christian.
VK said:
If I was to say I wasn't a Christian my parents would about disown me
As for the family issue? I don't talk to a majority of my family for differences in our beliefs of morality, attitude, and how we live our lives. They see me as a self-righteous, arrogant, pompous brat. I see them as hateful, spiteful, arrogant, self-serving bigots. If they decide they're done lying, cheating, stealing, and treating everyone else like they're inferiors... then I'd be happy to talk to them. But I have no desire to associate with them if they continue to act how they do now. I love my family, but I hate what they do. And that separation came long before I started going to church. So to be completely honest, I think copping-out based on religion is hooey.
VK said:
people who say "Yes" thinking it will avoid getting them into a conversation about going to church or worst, being preached to in public.
You shouldn't lie (tell a half-truth, stretch the fine-line of what you really do-and-don't believe) if someone asks you what you believe in, then complain about the fact that people want to talk about what you just claimed to believe. If you're too weak to stand up and declare what you believe, then you deserve to be talked into a hole.
If you don't have a relationship with Jesus, don't believe He really walked the Earth, don't believe that He is the Messiah... then don't tell me that you do. If you have no desire to have faith, I don't understand, but can deal with that. I have several co-workers that are atheists, agnostics, or otherwise undecided. I respect their decision and move on. Sure, I don't talk to them the same way that I do my Christian co-workers, but that's because I don't inundate them with discussions about faith.
There are several here that got into the CGA because of the clans or groups they were in that were primarily geared to a Christian audience. DarkVirtue has been kind enough to humor each of us that explore his past, want to talk religious talk with him, and yet he stands up time and time again for what he chooses to believe and comes out all the more respected for it (not that what we think of him matters, anyway).
If you're not a Christian, then don't claim to be.
If you're not a vegetarian, then don't claim to be.
If you're not a rocket scientist, then don't claim to be.
If you're not a man, than don't claim to be.
If you're not bald, dying or cancer, moving to Kansas, playing the latest video game, going to the movies this Friday... then don't claim to be.
It's so much easier if you just tell the truth like it is, and let everyone else deal with their hurt feelings.
I stood up at an administrative meeting last week and admitted to my operations chief (on tape, mind you) that I break about 7 company policies every single day I work because the policies don't work, need changed, need removed. There are bound to be consequences of that, but if I'm not willing to push for the changes that need made, then I should just stop complaining about the issues and do what all the other lemmings do.... sit there and take it because it's easier.
My dad makes fun of me for getting involved at the church. It didn't stop me from teaching Sunday School last week, or telling him that I was doing it. Afraid of what your parents think? Unless you're young enough that you're stuck in their house.... grow up.
I know I'm coming across harsh, and expect to get reported... but seriously, don't claim to be something you're not then cry about the repercussions.