Long version, just woke up, had to get out 5% of my words for the day. Short version follows in post #15.
Preacher has said many times the church is a hospital meant for sick people. Yes, God asks that we do not forsake gathering with believers, but if we did not need church, there would be no need for Him to ask us to gather there.
What you will find is that we come here for many different reasons. Some love gaming, some love to fellowship online, some love to talk about Jesus, some love to debate...and the list goes on. In addition, you will also find those who are at various stages of their walk with Christ. We are commanded to die daily and we all struggle with sin. Some of those sins are outward, others are not as obvious. Nevertheless, the Bible tells us that all have sinned and come short of the glory of God. We are all sinners.
For we know that the law is spiritual: but I am carnal, sold under sin.
For that which I do I allow not: for what I would, that do I not; but what I hate, that do I.
If then I do that which I would not, I consent unto the law that it is good.
Now then it is no more I that do it, but sin that dwelleth in me.
For I know that in me (that is, in my flesh), dwelleth no good thing: for to will is present with me; but how to perform that which is good, I find not,
For the good that I would I do not: but the evil which I would not, that I do.
Now if I do that I would not, it is no more I that do it, but sin that dwelleth in me.
I find then a law, that, when I would do good, evil is present with me.
For I delight in the law of God after the inward man:
But I see another law in my members, warring against the law of my mind, and bringing me into captivity to the law of sin which is in my members.
O wretched man that I am! who shall deliver me from the body of this death?
I thank God through Jesus Christ our Lord. So then with the mind I myself serve the law of God; but with the flesh the law of sin.
There is now no condemnation to them which are in Christ Jesus, who walk not after the flesh, but after the Spirit. Romans 7:14~8:1
That is much to read, granted, but I could really go on through chapter 8. These verses explain our struggle with sin. Paul wrote this and has stated that he was the chief among sinners. He is one of my favorite Bible men of God. He was honest and he tried earnestly to write about our struggles and give us hope and instruction.
Corp, Christians are often attacked, always have been, always will be. Just as you wonder what qualifies anyone to be a Christian, (and I hope I have explained above no one is "good" enough to be a Christian, quite the opposite), seeing that Jesus died for the world as stated in John 3:16&17, what makes a non-Christian too good to accept what Jesus has already bought and paid for? I have never turned down a gift...I just cannot imagine the reason behind ever doing so! Jesus is the most priceless gift ever known to man! The gift of eternal life through Jesus Christ our LORD has been despised and rejected. Why do men reject the Pearl of Great Price?