inkelis
New Member
First off, I'd like to say i love sex. I have a very active sex life, and i'm constantly researching ways to make it more interesting between me and my wife.
With that being said, i understand why some individuals remain abstinent. But part of me thinks that most individuals may do it for the wrong reasons.
Let me explain. I grew up a pentecostal, and in my house there was sort of a negative vibe associated with "Sex". I was taught since being a kid that it is something i should not do, and if i did, then it was wrong. It was always referred to in a disgusting tone, as if no one even wanted to talk about it. Almost as if it was an evil act. Sure, i also heard it was fine in marriage. But i was never taught about the great thing "Sex" is. Are we so untrusting of our kids that we teach them that "Sex" is terrible just to prevent them from partaking before marriage.
I love sex, and i love talking about it. I just wish it was more socially acceptable among other Christians. What are your thoughts? Is this the proper forum for this?
With that being said, i understand why some individuals remain abstinent. But part of me thinks that most individuals may do it for the wrong reasons.
Let me explain. I grew up a pentecostal, and in my house there was sort of a negative vibe associated with "Sex". I was taught since being a kid that it is something i should not do, and if i did, then it was wrong. It was always referred to in a disgusting tone, as if no one even wanted to talk about it. Almost as if it was an evil act. Sure, i also heard it was fine in marriage. But i was never taught about the great thing "Sex" is. Are we so untrusting of our kids that we teach them that "Sex" is terrible just to prevent them from partaking before marriage.
I love sex, and i love talking about it. I just wish it was more socially acceptable among other Christians. What are your thoughts? Is this the proper forum for this?