People
know when they are playing to much. It simply requires honesty and humility to admit that truth to ones self. There is a line where it becomes destructive and some online virtual environments are more conducive to become unhealthy. When your spiritual leveling shrinks..and takes a back seat to carnal leveling.. you have crossed the line. Christians know this, it's intuitive. Unbelievers know this..also.. Example: someone might brag they have all the epics from 25 mans.. but ..they have lost epics in real life.. neglected their wife..and kids.. lost their job... family.. You get the idea.
WWJBDING
If Jesus were on the Earth today, I believe that He'd be on the internet, playing games too.
If He was literally on earth today, we already know what he would be doing. He would be destroying the wicked. "Wrath of the lamb" (Rev) Those who have utterly refused to repent.. He will be "gathering the wheat, and burning up the tares". Matt 13:40-43. At some point there will not be any unbelievers left playing wow. "Gather out of his kingdom them which do iniquity and cast them into fire".. "Then the righteous shall shine forth" But for now.. there are over 9 million ppl in this virtual world.. and I'm betting most are not saved.. I see no reason to neglect this mission field. Wherever the "field" is for you.. motives can become corrupt.. and we could find ourselves trying to justify our unhealthy motives via scripture. The issue is primarily an internal one. (Though some external things of course are inherantly destructive)
The point is this: Is it Godly to spend leisure time? Of course it is. As long as we do not violate any righteous standard in the process, harming our selves or others (Whether it's gaming, sports.., music, movies..playing pool, cards (Gasp.. cards/pool!!!!)
Wine
I'll add the following to what has already been shown, that God the father/son are not uptight about having a glass of wine.. Speaking of Israel's tithe
under the law God told them to cash it in..and have a feast..and celebrate.
Deu 14:26 And thou shalt bestow that money for whatsoever thy soul lusteth after, for oxen, or for sheep, or
for wine, or for strong drink, or for whatsoever thy soul desireth: and thou shalt eat there before the LORD thy God, and thou shalt rejoice, thou, and thine household. And I doubt there was any dissention in the the ranks of the trinity.. Paul set down a criteria for leadership in the early church, that they not be given "to MUCH wine".. while the same Paul encouraged Timothy to have a "LITTLE" for health reasons.. Again the issue is motive, amount, self-control.
It's drunkenness, lack of self control, that is the issue.. because it alters ones mental faculties and makes them an unnecessary risk to others.. and for many it becomes their God, their place of refuge and escape (Just like this game can become to some, leaving ppl even more empty and bitter)