thinkerseven
New Member
I am writing an update after Ducky's urging to get more saints involved. As you know my wife has been mentally and physically sick for sometime. She blames me for it a lot, and even the doctors I see say that is not the case. I called her doctor today because she needed an appointment but was afraid to make one. Her doctor said she needed to make the appointment and that I need to be prepared for the possibility that my wife might get WORSE more so before my wife may admit that. Again my wife blames me but not intentionally, it is hard to explain. It is like she doesnt know what she is saying and yet does at the same time.
The happy part is this: before yesterday I would not have been able to handle one more day of it. Yesterday, God, saw fit to answer my prayer to send his angels to help me. I am so thankful for it. I talked to Joey and my doctor and my mentor. All of them helped me a great deal. My doctor told me something though that blew me away and I don't know why it didnt sink in before. That if I was the only person alive Jesus would have still died for me because he loves me that much. Also that his love is not performanced based like it was for me growing up. These things have helped me cope.
There is no way to avoid saying this but I feel like I need to bring up the possibility of divorce at our next marriage counseling session. Not because she is sick, but because she is emotionally abusive among other things. I have to do it at the session because she will explode on me if it isnt in a controlled enviroment. It is so hard to say all this, I am so embarassed. I would ask for prayers but I don't know what to ask for. After being married barely two years, I have dealt with so much that I cannot stand it anymore. I just want to be alone for a while with God so the pain will heal. Despite all this going on I feel peace and that is truelly a change for me. Thank you for all your prayers, I am blessed by them because I can endure now.
Jason
The happy part is this: before yesterday I would not have been able to handle one more day of it. Yesterday, God, saw fit to answer my prayer to send his angels to help me. I am so thankful for it. I talked to Joey and my doctor and my mentor. All of them helped me a great deal. My doctor told me something though that blew me away and I don't know why it didnt sink in before. That if I was the only person alive Jesus would have still died for me because he loves me that much. Also that his love is not performanced based like it was for me growing up. These things have helped me cope.
There is no way to avoid saying this but I feel like I need to bring up the possibility of divorce at our next marriage counseling session. Not because she is sick, but because she is emotionally abusive among other things. I have to do it at the session because she will explode on me if it isnt in a controlled enviroment. It is so hard to say all this, I am so embarassed. I would ask for prayers but I don't know what to ask for. After being married barely two years, I have dealt with so much that I cannot stand it anymore. I just want to be alone for a while with God so the pain will heal. Despite all this going on I feel peace and that is truelly a change for me. Thank you for all your prayers, I am blessed by them because I can endure now.
Jason