breal42day
New Member
Hello.
I am a little weary of posting here, because body language and tone is not communicated well over the internet. Having said that, however, I want to give a little introduction about myself. I would like to say, though, I apologize for the secrecy. It is necessary because a guild that I have been a lifelong member in since I started MMORPGs has become very disappointing.
So, here is a "small" introduction about me, what I like to see in gaming, and ask if there are any Christian guilds out there able to take me under their wing.
I have so many in game names, but for now I will use a neutral name not well known that I play as my unguilded toon: Skarrlet. I am on Lothar server / Alliance side. I have two level 60s, and a level 42. I guess you can call me a semi-power gamer of sorts. I say semi-power gamer, because I use a lot of my free time (downtime in the evenings) playing.
I have been hurt pretty bad from some people in my current guild. Even someone who calls himself a "Christian" took it upon himself and said some very destructive things. Folks, my attitude here is this: this is a game, it is a place I can be myself, and not have to worry about the different hats and "roles" I have to play in real life. I have a very demanding, publicly visible job. I have a wife in the same guild who had exploratory surgery for suspected cancer; thank goodness it was benign, because she means the world to me. But some members of this guild I currently am in has treated us very poorly; even receiving "holier than thou" posts from people who call themselves "Christians."
Folks, I am someone that is very healthy mentally; in fact, I am even very strict about boundaries. My whole view on MMORPGs is that these are games, they are entertainment; they are for our amusement. I do not expect real life to cross boundaries into a roleplaying atmosphere. This means I do not judge the personality or characteristics of others simply by my online experience with them; and I expect the same to be true of others towards me as well.
Having said all that, my struggle is that I have 2 level 60s and a level 42 on Lothar / Alliance side. I have Molten Core / Onyxia experience since October 2004 - with both my mage and my rogue. I really enjoy the end content part of gaming. However, my struggle is that it would feel like a huge, grueling task to grind out other characters on other servers.
Also, I am used to using voice over services for end game content (ventrilo, teamspeak, etc).
I would be looking for a guild, not necessarily to power level me and hold my hand through. But, one that would be willing to help achieve this goal of getting into high end content.
What can I offer? Well, I have experience in the end game content; I know two classes inside and out - what is effective for PvE and for PvP; and I do bring a light-hearted, fun atmosphere to the gaming experience.
I really don't want to get more personal into who I am, because my past experience has taught me "never let them know anything that can be used against you."
So, I don't know if you would want a level 1 to tag along in one of your guilds, but since I am looking for an end-game content guild, are there any Christian guilds out there who are involved in end game content? I guess the question should be, what servers are you folks on that are "large enough to do the gaming content" yet "small enough to just have fun" ?
Maybe I will see you folks online sometime, if I finally choose to break away from a currently poor situation.
I am a little weary of posting here, because body language and tone is not communicated well over the internet. Having said that, however, I want to give a little introduction about myself. I would like to say, though, I apologize for the secrecy. It is necessary because a guild that I have been a lifelong member in since I started MMORPGs has become very disappointing.
So, here is a "small" introduction about me, what I like to see in gaming, and ask if there are any Christian guilds out there able to take me under their wing.
I have so many in game names, but for now I will use a neutral name not well known that I play as my unguilded toon: Skarrlet. I am on Lothar server / Alliance side. I have two level 60s, and a level 42. I guess you can call me a semi-power gamer of sorts. I say semi-power gamer, because I use a lot of my free time (downtime in the evenings) playing.
I have been hurt pretty bad from some people in my current guild. Even someone who calls himself a "Christian" took it upon himself and said some very destructive things. Folks, my attitude here is this: this is a game, it is a place I can be myself, and not have to worry about the different hats and "roles" I have to play in real life. I have a very demanding, publicly visible job. I have a wife in the same guild who had exploratory surgery for suspected cancer; thank goodness it was benign, because she means the world to me. But some members of this guild I currently am in has treated us very poorly; even receiving "holier than thou" posts from people who call themselves "Christians."
Folks, I am someone that is very healthy mentally; in fact, I am even very strict about boundaries. My whole view on MMORPGs is that these are games, they are entertainment; they are for our amusement. I do not expect real life to cross boundaries into a roleplaying atmosphere. This means I do not judge the personality or characteristics of others simply by my online experience with them; and I expect the same to be true of others towards me as well.
Having said all that, my struggle is that I have 2 level 60s and a level 42 on Lothar / Alliance side. I have Molten Core / Onyxia experience since October 2004 - with both my mage and my rogue. I really enjoy the end content part of gaming. However, my struggle is that it would feel like a huge, grueling task to grind out other characters on other servers.
Also, I am used to using voice over services for end game content (ventrilo, teamspeak, etc).
I would be looking for a guild, not necessarily to power level me and hold my hand through. But, one that would be willing to help achieve this goal of getting into high end content.
What can I offer? Well, I have experience in the end game content; I know two classes inside and out - what is effective for PvE and for PvP; and I do bring a light-hearted, fun atmosphere to the gaming experience.
I really don't want to get more personal into who I am, because my past experience has taught me "never let them know anything that can be used against you."
So, I don't know if you would want a level 1 to tag along in one of your guilds, but since I am looking for an end-game content guild, are there any Christian guilds out there who are involved in end game content? I guess the question should be, what servers are you folks on that are "large enough to do the gaming content" yet "small enough to just have fun" ?
Maybe I will see you folks online sometime, if I finally choose to break away from a currently poor situation.