As for homosexuality. I'd rather not judge. Who am i to say they are unrepentant? I don't know what is in their heart, i don't know what they are struggling with. It's important that we don't judge others, so that they may not be turned off to what it is we have to offer.
"Beware of false prophets, which come to you in sheep's clothing, but inwardly they are ravening wolves. Ye shall know them by their fruits. Do men gather grapes of thorns, or figs of thistles?"
We don't need to judge them. Open homosexuality judges them for us.
"Wherefore God also gave them up to uncleanness through the lusts of their own hearts, to dishonour their own bodies between themselves: Who changed the truth of God into a lie, and worshipped and served the creature more than the Creator, who is blessed for ever. Amen. For this cause God gave them up unto vile affections: for even their women did change the natural use into that which is against nature: And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly, and receiving in themselves that recompence of their error which was meet. And even as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge, God gave them over to a reprobate mind, to do those things which are not convenient;"
If they can say, "Homosexuality is evil, it is a sin, and I pray that God will deliver me from it" then I will call them brother. If not, they stand as the enemy, unless God changes their heart.
We cannot judge, unless we can be judged. I know I am guilty, and there is no doubt of that. That's the very point of Jesus's death, burial, and resurrection.
Nowhere in the Word will you find, "Thou shalt not judge."
Wherefore rebuke them sharply, that they may be sound in the faith. Titus 1:13
And have no fellowship with the unfruitful works of darkness, but rather reprove them. For it is a shame even to speak of those things which are done of them in secret. Ephesians 5:11-12
How are we to do all this, if we do not judge another? Take a look at the very verse that people use to decry judgment:
Judge not, that ye be not judged. For with what judgment ye judge, ye shall be judged: and with what measure ye mete, it shall be measured to you again. And why beholdest thou the mote that is in thy brother's eye, but considerest not the beam that is in thine own eye? Or how wilt thou say to thy brother, Let me pull out the mote out of thine eye; and, behold, a beam is in thine own eye? Thou hypocrite,
first cast out the beam out of thine own eye; and then shalt thou see clearly to cast out the mote out of thy brother's eye. Give not that which is holy unto the dogs,
neither cast ye your pearls before swine, lest they trample them under their feet, and turn again and rend you.
We are supposed to remove the mote from our brother's eye, but before we judge him, we must judge ourselves. If we point a finger at another, we must first point the finger at ourselves. Am I not a sinner? Of course I am. Which is exactly why I lay my entire hope of salvation at the foot of the cross.
But how can we know who are the swine, if we do not judge? Only look at the fruit of their labor, and you can tell who you are faced with.
Never does He say, "Thou shalt not judge."